♡having a good old talk♡

Hi everyone! I realise that not everyone likes blog posts where things get all motivational and stuff, and at first that was why I decided I wouldn't write posts like that. and here we are. I now realise that some lessons I learn as I wander through this journey we call life, are ones that some people haven't learnt yet. So here I am to teach you things I wish I was taught. Even if you click the X in the top right hand corner and leave to go read a better blog, I am hoping that at least on person sitting on their laptop in a small rainy part of the UK or anywhere in the world, is going to find help in my posts. If these kinds of blog posts are ones you would like me to more of please let me know in the comments and say the topic or DM me @love.juliette on instagram. Because man have I messed up a lot of times and learnt something from it. Silver linings my friend.

one thing I did today, was instead of doing maths, I sat with on e of my really good friends, someone I see more like a brother and we talked. If im honest we could have done it at a better time than in the middle of education but still. The friend I spoke to, lets call him Johan encase he comes up in future reference,  is someone I really trust and get on with ridiculously well, he makes me laugh more than anyone so telling him stuff was both easy and funny. We took it in turns to confess our most shameful, embarrassing, and deep moments to each other with no fear of judgement or the secrets getting out. some of them were about or past or our regrets or even about each other, nothing was un told. And I mean nothing! As much as we had a good time doing it and making jokes about each other, it really did feel relieving to get things off our chest. I know it was for me at least and im sure it was for him to. I even feel a bit like it bought us closer together if that's even possible? No shipping please we are both taken which I think made it even better because some of it was about our relationships, so we didn't need to worry about upsetting or making the other person jealous.

Anyways, the whole point of this was to say that if you have things you need to say then say them. Anything that has been dragging you down or eating you alive, if you know what I mean. Grab someone like my friend Johan here that you can trust and just get talking. It can bee as light hearted or as deep as you need it to be. Just be sure they are someone you can 100% trust and rely on, and maybe if you don't know anyone like that then tell your parents or a sibling or even get a therapist or counsellor. Or even me! You can DM me anytime and I will reply to your problems, I may joke about a lot but believe me I can be serious if its need and you would be surprised at the help I can give if I do say so myself.

I seriously hope this has helped at least on person in some way and like I aid let me know of anything you need advice or help on, unless its maths because as we have established, I cant do that very well! If you could share and follow that would be awesome, sending you love Juliette x